Embracing Freedom of Expression with Gender Identity and Fluidity to Break Free from Gender Stereotypes: The Journey of the Gender Balanced Body Theme and How Therapeutic Breathwork can Help.

The Gender Balanced body theme is one of the developmental structures from Therapeutic Breathwork that’s discussed in the book “Break Through with Breathwork" by Jim Morningstar. This body theme is characterized by a balance of masculine and feminine energies, and a sense of comfort and safety in one's gender identity. In this article, we will explore the Gender Balanced body theme in more detail, including its characteristics, challenges, and opportunities for growth.

The Gender Balanced Body Theme typically emerges between the ages of three and five years old. When this theme is unintegrated, it can manifest as a tendency to hold back or hold in emotions due to a fear of falling behind. This dynamic culminates in the developmental challenge of balancing freedom of expression with gender identity. The Gender Balanced Body Theme is a mixture of the preceding Empathetic Nurturer or Steadfast Supporter character traits, or the following Energetic Grounded theme which can result in a passive-feminine structure for males or a masculine-aggressive structure for females. It's important to note that these patterns are not defined by gender preference, as sexual orientation is fluid in any of the body themes.

The basic right in question is “Do I have the right to want or feel?”

Individuals with the Gender Balanced body theme have a balance of masculine and feminine energies. They may be comfortable expressing both traditionally masculine and feminine traits, and may have a strong sense of their own identity. They may be drawn to careers in creative fields, where they can express their unique perspective and creativity. This theme is often associated with a sense of balance and harmony. 

This balance of energies can allow individuals with the Gender Balanced body theme to be highly adaptable and versatile in their personal and professional lives. They may be able to navigate a variety of social situations with ease, and may be skilled at both leading and supporting others.

It is important to note that gender is a complex and multifaceted concept, and that there is no one "right" way to express one's gender identity. It is important to approach gender with an open mind and to avoid making assumptions based on stereotypes or societal expectations.

While the Gender Balanced body theme has many positive qualities, it also presents some challenges. One of the biggest challenges for individuals with the Gender Balanced body theme is navigating societal expectations around gender. They may face pressure to conform to traditional gender roles, or may experience discrimination or prejudice based on their gender expression.

An opportunity for growth is learning to navigate relationships in a way that feels authentic and fulfilling. This may involve setting boundaries, communicating openly and honestly with partners, and being willing to let go of relationships that are no longer serving them.

Breathwork can be a powerful tool for individuals with the Gender Balanced body theme. By focusing on the breath, individuals can connect with their own unique energy and tap into their creativity. Breathwork can also help individuals manage stress and regulate their emotions.

One breathwork technique that may be particularly helpful for individuals with the Gender Balanced body theme is the circular breath. The circular breath involves breathing in a continuous, circular pattern, without pausing between the inhale and exhale. This can help individuals connect with their own unique energy and tap into their creativity.

Another breath technique  is deep belly breathing, also known as diaphragmatic breathing. This is a powerful technique that can help you connect with your body and regulate your emotions. This technique involves breathing deeply into your belly, allowing your diaphragm to expand and contract with each breath. By focusing on your breath and the physical sensations in your body, you can calm your nervous system and reduce feelings of stress or overwhelm.

The goal for the Gender Balanced body theme is a balanced expression of both receptive and assertive aspects through mobilization of the split or blocked energy. Breathwork goals are to balance the inhale/ exhale and assertive/passive energy to create a sense of safety in self expression. 

When the Gender Balanced body theme is integrated, individuals are able to embrace and celebrate their unique identity. They are able to navigate relationships in a way that feels authentic and fulfilling, and are able to express their creativity and unique perspective in their careers and personal lives.

When the Gender Balanced body type is unintegrated, individuals may struggle with feelings of isolation or loneliness. They may feel pressure to conform to traditional gender roles, or may experience discrimination or prejudice based on their gender identity. They may also struggle with relationships, and may have a tendency to attract partners who are either overly masculine or overly feminine.

The male Gender Balanced body theme may be comfortable expressing both assertive, active energy and nurturing, receptive energy. Thay may carry weight fairly evenly, with a soft rounded exterior with narrow shoulders. The expression is compliant with an undermining attitude when stressed. 

Individuals with the female Gender Balanced body theme may have a upper/lower split, with the lower body being more passive and the upper body more narrow with a tightly held jaw, with sharp focused eyes and a tendency towards aggression when stressed. Competition with males is typical, as a sense of worth comes through achievement.

In conclusion, the Gender Balanced body theme is characterized by a balance of masculine and feminine energies, and a sense of comfort and safety in one's gender identity. While this body type presents many opportunities for growth, it also presents some challenges, particularly in terms of navigating societal expectations around gender and relationships. By practicing breathwork and other self-care techniques, individuals with the Gender Balanced body theme can learn to embrace and celebrate their unique gender identity, and can unlock their full potential in their careers and personal lives.

The Gender Balanced body theme, is referred to as a blend of the preceding and following body theme. The male theme and the female theme can both be considered a subtype of the Rigid or Energetic Grounded structure. 

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About Mark Moon

Mark is a breathwork and holistic wellness coach with over 25 years experience in the health and lifestyle space, teaching yoga, fitness, and mindfulness practices that support people to breathe better, move easier and get the most out of life. Mark's qualifications combine a background in NLP, Developmental Coaching, and Yoga Philosophy, which complements his ongoing studies in the field of Therapeutic Breathwork and mind-body therapies under the guidance of Jim Morningstar from Transformations USA. You can read more about Mark here.